Why is my ex trying to provoke an argument with me?
10.06.2025 04:45
My ex did this,
She claimed her friend who was newly single needed her support.
I'm assuming she was trying to flee from accountability in her life, probably got caught doing something from the new boyfriend she suddenly had, so to get out of the spot light, she had to put me in it.
Eventually the phone calls n texts slowed to a stop. Eventually she stopped coming home. And when she did it was instant anger and yelling.
Inevitably she had an explosive outrage and demanded I moved out n that it was over.
Our breakup process started when she started going out drinking, about when our daughter was 2
My daughter from a previous relationship would come over, my ex would leave that weekend n party the whole weekend away. Coming back Sunday. Leaving me with the three kids.
It eventually became an every weekend thing, then her friend started coming over, every single day. She wouldn't leave. And my ex was letting her invade our life.
So without knowing your situation. I'm guessing your ex had to provoke an argument with you because something on their end did not fall into place as planned, so as a way out. They had to point a finger at you
Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?
Fast forward to 2.5 years later. The explosive anger and aggression came back out of no where. Long texts, picking fights, threats, anger, rage, chaos.